Dr. Ronald Goldstein, a founding member of our club and an
enthusiastic participant in all club activities over the years, died
suddenly and unexpectedly on May 11, 2010. In keeping with our
tradition, the club has made a contribution in Ron's memory to the
charity chosen by his family, the American Heart Association. In the
remarks that follow, I am going to take off my Webmaster hat and speak
simply as a friend who knew Ron very well and loved him dearly.
I met Ron Goldstein for the first time shortly after I bought my 356 in
1998, and the friendship that ensued will always epitomize for me what
is best about the hobby we shared. We did a lot of things together,
including road trips to neighboring states to knock on doors for John
Kerry and Barack Obama and to DC to pick up a rebuilt 356 engine. We
caravaned our 356s all over, worked on the cars together and rescued
each other when they broke down and stranded us. Through all of this,
not just for me but everyone in our circle, Ron was always there with a
smile, an offer to help, a story or an invitation to hop in and go for a
ride.
No one who knew Ron could have any doubts about what the appeal of
owning a 356 was for him. It was the driving. Whether it
was on the track at Graatan in his Coupe or on a country road in his
Cabriolet, driving a 356 was pure bliss for Ron. He loved the car's
sound, its feel, the lightness of its controls, and the view over the
hood—especially if that view included another 356, preferably one
equipped with wide tires and a bit of negative camber. If you loved
those things too, Ron made you feel like a brother.
For the last several years, Ron and I went out to lunch together every
Tuesday. The last week of his life was an exception. Ron gave me a
call from his dental office at noon on Monday and said, "I've finished
up early for the day at work. What say we get some lunch? Why wait
till tomorrow?" That was a lucky call for me, because the next morning
Ron had his fatal heart attack. We drove up to Highwood and ate at a
Mexican restaurant, and afterwards, as usual, we sat in his car in front
of my house and shot the breeze. I couldn’t tell you how many hours we
logged out there over the years. Our conversations covered every topic
under the sun, from the news of the day to the progress the weeds were
making in conquering my front yard. We talked about the books we lent
each other, the trips all over the world that Ron and Anita took
together, the accomplishments of their children, and Ron's other regular
lunch dates, at Chuckie Cheese with his granddaughters. We made plans.
Those hours are probably what I will miss the most. When I look out my
front window, I'll see two old guys sitting in an old car, happily
jabbering away the afternoon. I’m so lucky to have been one of them.